Alright I have a poll I want to take. My friend who was going out with his girlfriend for a year and a half ended up cheating on her. They've been rocky these days and they haven't been getting along, but that's no excuse. He feels rotten about it and don't know what to do really. So in a situation like this what would you do?
He needs to tell her about it now and try to work it out, if it's his first time she might forgive him (I personally would not forgive but she might). If she finds out later it would be much worse. It hurts at any point to be cheated on but to find out at a later date would definitely make her leave him.
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break up and dont tell her, and if you do tell her hopefully she'd dump your ass since she knows you're going to do it again... and again.... and... again
If she didn't find out why tell her and put the relationship in more drama. The guy needs to be honest with himself and know what he wants. Only he knows if he wants ass on the side, IMO if he still does, he should cut the girl lose and go play. Most guys like the security of a gf and won't leave them yet, continue to play. Then they get dumped and feel devistated.
I had a feeling that the females here would have said honesty is the best policy and have a feeling that the males would keep this quite. I'm wondering how many people would keep quite and stay with the girl or stay quite and break up. I think I'd break up without telling her. Think that would be the best course of action. It sucks to be dishonest but sometimes I think it might be the best for both parties.
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Originally Posted by ironrice
I had a feeling that the females here would have said honesty is the best policy and have a feeling that the males would keep this quite. I'm wondering how many people would keep quite and stay with the girl or stay quite and break up. I think I'd break up without telling her. Think that would be the best course of action. It sucks to be dishonest but sometimes I think it might be the best for both parties.
... funny how that works when the females are the most scandalous ones!!
Just get it over with and tell her the truth and see what happens. He should stop being a pussy about it. If he didn't cheat on her there wouldn't be an issue. So its his fault and he should own up to it.
Just get it over with and tell her the truth and see what happens. He should stop being a pussy about it. If he didn't cheat on her there wouldn't be an issue. So its his fault and he should own up to it.
That is my point exactly. So many people blame someone else when they cheat. Oh she wasn't around enough... It's not her fault he cheated and he should be a man and tell her what happened. If he didn't care enough about her not to cheat he shouldn't be worried about her leaving so he should tell her.
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