Men chase women. It's instinctual, it's natural, and it's fuckin' fun! Now there will always be certain pitfalls along that chase: side effects, consequences, etc. All we are doing in this thread is highlighting those negative consequences and want fellow men to be aware of certain things through our own experiences.
If there were more women G owners, I'm sure they could get together and do the same on this forum.
Chasing isn't always fun or even a good idea. Why chase when you can simply replace the subject [her]....
I definitely prefer getting to know someone who's at least a bit interested in you from the beginning. Its incredibly easy to tell when they are NOT interested but sometimes you kill yourself with assumptions and guesses about a potential spark/chemistry-- sucks man_
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got no smile and lack a lavish lifestyle but its cool cuz I came up hungry, jus a lil Latino tryin to make it and when I make it.. I promise the world wont lightly take it.
the whole 'trying to get pregnant thing' -- a girl in one of my classes did an article review on the topic.... n yeah women ARE FUCKEN INSANE when it comes to that--
well on this issue, I'll put my .02 cents in . . .
(Beanie, Ggirl, LC, and to the rest of the ladies on 6mt, forgive me for generalizing.)
YOU HAVE ALL BEEN BRAINWASHED! By men and women for sure since the dawn of time, but it seems as though some women, who buy into this traditional garbage, only achieve credibility and womanhood when they are married and have kids. A degree is not enough, nor is a successful career enough to impress the older females in your community. Evidently, motherhood and being a good wife are things that make you a woman and that sort of logic is fed to you since the day you were born.
I think it fucks you all up to be honest. It impedes your movement, it limits your thinking and your subsequent feedom.
What does this have to do with Jayelle's comment? Same thing that I've experienced in my life, that some women will do anything to get pregnant. For what purpose, I am not entirely sure, but I would logically presume that it has to do with the roles or criteria that is fed to you since you were a child.
If I'm wrong, or way off the mark, by all means, please correct me.
well on this issue, I'll put my .02 cents in . . .
(Beanie, Ggirl, LC, and to the rest of the ladies on 6mt, forgive for stereotyping.)
YOU HAVE ALL BEEN BRAINWASHED! By men and women for sure since the dawn of time, but it seems as though some women, who buy into this traditional garbage, only achieve credibility and womanhood when they are married and have kids. A degree is not enough, nor is a successful career enough to impress the older females in your community. Evidently, motherhood and being a good wife are things that make you a woman and that sort of logic is fed to you since the day you were born.
I think it fucks you all up to be honest. It impedes your movement, it limits your thinking and your subsequent feedom.
What does this have to do with Jayelle's comment? Same thing that I've experienced in my life, that some women will do anything to get pregnant. For what purpose, I am not entirely sure, but I would logically presume that it has to do with the roles or criteria that is fed to you since you were a child.
If I'm wrong, or way off the mark, by all means, please correct me.
they likely reach a point in their lives where no one [that really appeals to them] is any longer there to chase and pursue them... them as a woman and their character and them as a woman and their sensual characteristics.. all that jazz--
pursuit is whack..!
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got no smile and lack a lavish lifestyle but its cool cuz I came up hungry, jus a lil Latino tryin to make it and when I make it.. I promise the world wont lightly take it.
Chasing isn't always fun or even a good idea. Why chase when you can simply replace the subject [her]....
But what is a chase? It's a hunt. A challenge. Something peaks your interest and you go after it - physically, emotionally, and instinctually. How else do you replace the subject?
A. you either pay for it with a cash transaction.
B. you put in the effort to gain attention to yourself and begin talking and following up.
But what is a chase? It's a hunt. A challenge. Something peaks your interest and you go after it - physically, emotionally, and instinctually. How else do you replace the subject?
A. you either pay for it with a cash transaction.
B. you put in the effort to gain attention to yourself and begin talking and following up.
That's a chase my friend.
hahaha part A is Hilarious_
you can readily replace the subject if you are a Baller-- the subjects chase You!! :]
since that is a rarity, I admit, I LOVE the challenge but thats because I am very competitive. Sometimes I'll take the chase/challenge jus because there is someone or something else standing in the way of success... Or when someone believes I do not have a chance of success.
I love, love proving ppl wrong-- but I am many times pessimistic so sometimes dont even begin a pursuit...
Guess I gotta shake-off the days in HS where the 'subjects' would be readily attained and well-known. Now it is unfamiliar territory where 1st impressions are vital, respect is essential, and humor is always helpful--
Id still much rather Replace, than Chase-- if I could that is_
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got no smile and lack a lavish lifestyle but its cool cuz I came up hungry, jus a lil Latino tryin to make it and when I make it.. I promise the world wont lightly take it.
The chase can be fun JL7. Sometimes you see a girl that you think is hot and you just want to see if you have it in you to hook up. Like gamma said, it's a challenge. My ex, the stripper, was a challenge because 1. she was bi-sexual and preferred girls and 2. was hot and probably out of my league. The fact that I was able to hook up with her was like wow! Of course she ended up being wacked in the head (what a shock ) but at least I proved to myself that I could hook up with a hot chick. On your JL7 scale, she is a solid 8-8.5.
