i'm not guaranteed to be re-imburse...it's not a reimbursement really....Instead of giving gifts, most Asian cultures give money as the wedding gift....like some old Italian cultures.......
basically it depends on who attends the banquet, sometimes people make get enough "wedding gift" to pay for it and some extra, and sometimes they come up short....
so whereas you may spend $50k on your wedding.....you get tons of gifts......and I don't get any gifts....
and besides....Super's a dr....a plane ticket is chump change for him....
