Pregnancy

[G35Princess]

yep no outward signs.. she had her period every month.. so it never occurred to her that she was preg.. it's a trip.

as for my cousin... it's complicated. I have friends who have kids her age and turned out great. But she's not the kind that I think is ready to be a mother. she can barely take care of herself.. and plus there is no support from her bf's side ...and her parents - they have nothing left to say (she ran away last year)

I also found out that she told my other cousin about the pregnancy at 2 1/2 months and wanted to get an abortion...but couldn't afford it. That's why I'm upset in a way because if she had come to me I would of given her the money ... I dont' want her to have to go thur this because she had no other choice....but it's too late now.

I do hope she'll turn out to be a great mother and hopefully this will turn her life around.

and Jay... back then woman were more mature... I'm sure your parent made the best... I know a lot of people who would be able to handle it... I just think my cousin is still too young... if I honestly believe she was ready I wouldn't feel the way I do now.

[2003G35]

Originally Posted by G35Princess

yep no outward signs.. she had her period every month.. so it never occurred to her that she was preg.. it's a trip.

as for my cousin... it's complicated. I have friends who have kids her age and turned out great. But she's not the kind that I think is ready to be a mother. she can barely take care of herself.. and plus there is no support from her bf's side ...and her parents - they have nothing left to say (she ran away last year)

I also found out that she told my other cousin about the pregnancy at 2 1/2 months and wanted to get an abortion...but couldn't afford it. That's why I'm upset in a way because if she had come to me I would of given her the money ... I dont' want her to have to go thur this because she had no other choice....but it's too late now.

I do hope she'll turn out to be a great mother and hopefully this will turn her life around.

and Jay... back then woman were more mature... I'm sure your parent made the best... I know a lot of people who would be able to handle it... I just think my cousin is still too young... if I honestly believe she was ready I wouldn't feel the way I do now.

did your cousin ever consider adoption?? I am adopted....its not so bad. if someone is incapable, financially not fit, or not suitable to be a parent, it is a good option. This way the child and the child bearer are left in good situations.

Just a suggestion.

Kyung Min

[Neftali]

y'know, this reminds me of that ol' adage... something, something, something... shit, i can't remember it, but i know it ends w/ 'your mother is a whore'!!

[ABQ_G35]

Originally Posted by beanie

sometimes they've been known to fuse back together

Also, sometime back, a friend of mine wound up getting pregnant and the fetus started growing inside a cut tube, freaked her out, they thought she had a tumor.

[uhohNumber2brb]

Originally Posted by 2003G35

did your cousin ever consider adoption?? I am adopted....its not so bad. if someone is incapable, financially not fit, or not suitable to be a parent, it is a good option. This way the child and the child bearer are left in good situations.

Just a suggestion.

Kyung Min

were you adopted by white folks.....

I have a korean friend who was adopted by one...

[GZire]

Originally Posted by jayelleseven

I disagree.

Depends on how she raises the child and hopefully they turn out as a good person.

I was born when my father was 17 and I'll be transferring to UCSB this fall to major in Economics. And Im 20, didn't spend 4 or 5 years in junior/community college :]

Yes its not jus academics in life but she could turn out to raise an great child ;]

You are the exception to the rule..........must have good parents or you'd have turned out messed up like Hexx.

[uhohNumber2brb]

Originally Posted by GZire

You are the exception to the rule..........must have good parents or you'd have turned out messed up like Hexx.

i wouldnt put the blame on his parents....I dont even think the Cleavers could raise Hex up right....

[superdude]

the Cleavers can do anyyyything

[2003G35]

Originally Posted by uhohNumber2brb

were you adopted by white folks.....

I have a korean friend who was adopted by one...

ㅋㅋㅋ 네.
"Haha yes."

Yeah I was adopted by caucasians. So here I am in USA, away from Korea. I am going back soon though. Ji young nuna is determined to make me fluent in Korean so I can go back ^^ with the ability to live and work.

[GZire]

Originally Posted by 2003G35

ㅋㅋㅋ 네.
"Haha yes."

Yeah I was adopted by caucasians. So here I am in USA, away from Korea. I am going back soon though. Ji young nuna is determined to make me fluent in Korean so I can go back ^^ with the ability to live and work.

When you get back there send me your women.

[2003G35]

Haha...why don't you go visit asia and find women that suit your needs and tastes?

[GZire]

One of our guys in in Thailand now. I'm pretty sure he's chosen a bunch of gals who'll suit his needs. Now that's a perv.

[zeroscythe]

damn dude... that scares me... still had her period during pregnancy... now thats a big trip.. my GF is on the pill tho so im happy... and definately if u want to be 100% safe go and get a depo shot.. no kids for at least a year.. cuz honestly condoms suck so bad.. I tried using an ultra-thin the other day i couldnt feel shit 45 minutes later im still add it waiting to even get the slightest sensation lol they're horrible.. but i only recommend that when ur with someone u trust.. if u meet a chick at the club who tells you shes on the pill and will let u not use protection its likely you may leave her place with a little more then a smile on your face if u know what i mean

[uhohNumber2brb]

i think i might be impotent from all the drinking.....

[superdude]

dont u wanna have babies number2?