trust issues ...what ya think?

[oScottio]

so my boyz decided to go on a cruise on carnival cruise lines for a 4 day weekend in march. we're heading to ensenada, mexica...arriba arriba! a couple guys couldn't go cuz of their girlfriend and wife giving them grief about guys going on a cruise ALONE. we've gone to vegas alone and some other trips. but this one is off limits cuz it's "romantic" on a cruise and ur with girls on a confined ship. i've never been on a crusie so i don't know how it is. my gf is totally fine with me going and she was trying to convince the other girls to let their men go cuz if they're gonna cheat..they could do it anywhere. the girls opposed were like, "why don't u guys go to vegas again then or do camping?" CUZ WE ALREADY DID THAT DORKUS!!! shish...well, i guess they have some trust issues which i can understand. i'm just lucky to have a girlfriend who trusts me...and if u ask me if my gf can go on a cruise alone with a bunch of other girls...HELLZ NO! hahaha.

so what do you guys think?

[jl9618]

Yep, trust issues. Vegas is just as bad if not worse than a cruise IMO. If everyone still really wants to go maybe they can bring the other half???

[oScottio]

exactly..u can have just as bad temptations in vegas. and bringing the girls..that's a no go..this is a thing we do every year alone, just the guys acting stupid, smoking cigars, drinking like a mofo. one year, we almost blew up a campsite with a gasoline tank from the back of a truck. we couldn't get a fire started, so one guy brought the tank out and started pouring it on the small fire...the flames raced up the stream of gas he was pouring and the freaked out and threw the tank. we all ran screaming like girls...hahaha. ah, good times. see, we couldn't of done that in front of the girls...we have an image to protect. hehe

i wouldn't mind taking the girls with us, i think it'd be actually more fun. but this is a guys trip. just brothers bonding...maybe some ass slapping too =X

[partyman66]

Maybe she wants you to go on the trip so she can have the whole week alone with a mystery fuck-buddy? haha.

Gotta watch out... those bitches are tricky!

[Hexxum001]

Why don't some chicks understand that guys just wanna hang out with guys sometimes. As much as I liked hanging out with my ex, every once in a while, I wanted to just kick it with the fellas. Luckily she was cool about it. Some chicks need to just relax. If a guy is gonna cheat, it doesn't really matter where he is at. I heard those carnival cruises are mostly geezers anyways!

[oScottio]

dammit partyman! haha

hexx..yeah, we just need our own space sometimes too.
i told the girls that we would even go on an old person's cruise...but one girl was still like..no! stupid..see, that's not an issue of the cruise then..it's an issue of trust.

[ggirl]

It would depend. If there had been cheating in the past or something I could see having a problem with it. If it is a good relationship with no cheating... Have fun & bring me a present.

[beanie]

Originally Posted by oScottio

i'm just lucky to have a girlfriend who trusts me...and if u ask me if my gf can go on a cruise alone with a bunch of other girls...HELLZ NO! hahaha.

so what do you guys think?

So she trust you, but you don't trust her?

Those other girls definitely sound like they have some trust issues... or they are just jealous and want to go on the cruise with you guys. But like ggirl said, it can also depend on the situation/relationship and past behavior...

Glad your girlfriend trusts you and is "letting" you go. Have fun amd don't get into too much trouble ^___^

[Hexxum001]

Damn, ggirl and beanie just reminded me why I wanted to have a 3some with the 2 of them! Too bad more girls can't have that kind of attitude.

[chenga]

I guess those girls confirm the old saying

"Women, can't live with 'em."

[Hexxum001]

Originally Posted by chenga

I guess those girls confirm the old saying

"Women, can't live with 'em."

I know what you mean. Women, can't live with'em . . . . pass the booze!