You sound very proud of her. That's a big deal & a great thing. I wish you many years of happiness and a very enjoyable marriage.
Thank you, but I am very proud of her and always have been.
You know we've outlasted many of our friends who have gone on to get married and then gotta divorce. I am a product of a divorced marriage so I didn't believe in marriage when I first met her. In fact, I truly don't believe you should get married before the age of 30 (general rule, there are always exceptions), but going into 2005 last year, I knew one of 2 things was going to happen: break-up or go for it all. Therapy helped me, plus a couple of trips I took by myself, but I have decided to go for it all. I'm glad we took our time about it. You feel complete when you marry your best friend and you already know in advance how they like their steak cooked, which side of the bed they prefer, and know how to compromise when it comes to a Raider vs. Donkey rivalry.
Yes, she's a donkey's and patriots fan. Errrrrr.
Woops, sorry for hijacking your thread.
I'm very happy for you and I am going to drink to you both tonight!
Cheers!
You got yourself a good woman there Gamma Don't worry about thread jacking. This was a thread to post about your post new year happenings. I think this qualifies especially after ten years of dating.
So did you catch her off guard? Or did she have an idea that you were gonna pop the Q? Did she cry? Were both of you drunk? jk
She was on to me. Like I said, she's a smart girl, so she was on to me. She knew I was being extra nice the last month and her brother sort of gave me away for I had already asked her parents in advanced and he knew about it (for a doctor, he's still a dumbass). No, we weren't drunk like the night before, when we were drunk together, and that's why I didn't propose. I wanted it genuine, quite, and intimate. It's hard to be intimate when you're drunk. I was writing and writing what I wanted to say on hotel paper the day before and I kept it in my pocket. Luckily, it all came out right and I flowed really well.
But after 10 years of being together, the next day felt exactly the same except the monkey of proposing was off my back and now the stress of planning a wedding was on.
You got yourself a good woman there Gamma Don't worry about thread jacking. This was a thread to post about your post new year happenings. I think this qualifies especially after ten years of dating.
You know, a man has to learn how to compromise when the wife wants to go shopping, or when the wife wants to hang out with office friends and they're all girls and you really dont' want to be there, or when she asks you to hold her purse or bag while she shops ( that one took a while for me to acquiesce to)
But the thing that will always cause an argument is the Raider vs. Donkey rivalry. God I love talkin' shit on them and it is hard as hell to watch my mouth come Sunday. But she's learned to tolerate the Raiders too, so it goes both ways.
So did you catch her off guard? Or did she have an idea that you were gonna pop the Q? Did she cry? Were both of you drunk? jk
She was on to me. Like I said, she's a smart girl, so she was on to me. She knew I was being extra nice the last month and her brother sort of gave me away for I had already asked her parents in advanced and he knew about it (for a doctor, he's still a dumbass). No, we weren't drunk like the night before, when we were drunk together, and that's why I didn't propose. I wanted it genuine, quite, and intimate. It's hard to be intimate when you're drunk. I was writing and writing what I wanted to say on hotel paper the day before and I kept it in my pocket. Luckily, it all came out right and I flowed really well.
But after 10 years of being together, the next day felt exactly the same except the monkey of proposing was off my back and now the stress of planning a wedding was on.
Hey, I didn't do a damn thing except show up at the given time and date.
If you want a kick ass planner, let me know.
My wife says that her planner was a Godsend.
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Whoa! Whoa! Pump the brakes kid...
Fuck I hope it is that easy. I'll let you know, thanks again!
Dude, if your lady is gonna be bridezilla then yeah, you might have some snags along the way.
Yeah, just PM if you want the planner's info.
Good luck with everything.
p.s.
Do you want me to take you to wine country for your bachelor party?
Sideways SUCKED!!!
I hope I'm kidnapped by my boys and taken to either Amsterdam or Bangkok for my bachelor's party, FUCK wine country! Give me booze, weed, and women for viewing pleasure.
Fuck I hope it is that easy. I'll let you know, thanks again!
Dude, if your lady is gonna be bridezilla then yeah, you might have some snags along the way.
Yeah, just PM if you want the planner's info.
Good luck with everything.
p.s.
Do you want me to take you to wine country for your bachelor party?
Sideways SUCKED!!!
I hope I'm kidnapped by my boys and taken to either Amsterdam or Bangkok for my bachelor's party, FUCK wine country! Give me booze, weed, and women for viewing pleasure.
Good man.
Amsterdam sounds perfect.
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Whoa! Whoa! Pump the brakes kid...
Fuck I hope it is that easy. I'll let you know, thanks again!
Dude, if your lady is gonna be bridezilla then yeah, you might have some snags along the way.
Yeah, just PM if you want the planner's info.
Good luck with everything.
p.s.
Do you want me to take you to wine country for your bachelor party?
Sideways SUCKED!!!
I hope I'm kidnapped by my boys and taken to either Amsterdam or Bangkok for my bachelor's party, FUCK wine country! Give me booze, weed, and women for viewing pleasure.
I wish you many years of happiness and a very enjoyable marriage. 
that one took a while for me to acquiesce to)
