During our girls night out (spend at home over wine and dinner ) All my girlfriends, including myself were discussing our love life and I explained my issue and one of my friend ran to her bookshelf took out a book and threw it at me....
The book was "Why Men Love Bitches" It was very funny... and true to some extend. We had a blast reading it and trying to find out if we were the "nice girl" or the "bitch" ...I think I was more the "bitch"
Then guys finnally came home from their Boy's night out and we asked them for their opinions ... and man were they almost identical to the book!!!
it was more of "things that good girls do vs bitches"
and like how to fake an orgasm and stuff
for example... You (the guy) said he'll call... but haven't done so and it's now 4 hrs later...
The nice girl: Calls him 4 times and leaves messages about how he need to keep his promise and should of called cuz she's worried.
The bitch: Turn off her phone or let it go to vm..he can leave a message.
Another example: You ( the guy) expects her home or to know her where abouts....
The nice girl: Tells you that her phone will be on and you can call her if you need her. And she'll call you to let you know where she's at every hour or so.
The bitch: Will leave you wondering where she is every now and then- doesn't always answer your calls
A lot of guys like a challenge, and a bitchy girl presents just that. Unpredictability adds sexual tension and excitement to the way a man perceives a woman. I think that a lot of the things that make a girl seem Unpredictable and Self-Motivated also make them come off as a bitch to some men.
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Well most "nice" girls are kindy 'clingy' ...or better yet, they're too nice. Like they'd do whatever you want because they dont' wanna lose the guy. A "bitch" is more of the 'independent" girl.
I mean...if there was 6 items..I'd fit 4 of the Bitch...one of friend actually fit the nice girl more and it's no surprise since her bf treats her like crap- dating other girls behind her back while she trys to play the 'wife' role!!!
"I am Not Enough" VS. "I'm Enough- Take it or Leave it"
Nice Girl: She calls him often ans says, "please return my call".
Bitch: She gets back to him when she's free.
Nice Girl: She is on call like a rookie flight attendant.
Bitch: She sees him when it is convenient for her.
Nice Girl: She makes it obvious a relationship is her goal before she knows much about him.
Bitch: She goes out to have fun and doesn't make promises to a virtual stranger.
Nice Girl: When he does call her, shis mad he didn't call sooner.
Bitch: When he calls her, he is curious where she is, and why she's not there.
Nice Girl: She often drives
Bitch: He'll pick her up or happily go out of his way.
Nice Girl: She asks, "where's our relationship going?"
Bitch: He has no clue where the relationship is going, and she leaves it like that.
Nice Girl: She talks about having babies
Bitch: She can't remember his last name.
Nice Girl: She asks about the "EX".
Bitch: He brings up the EX; she looks at her watch.
I guess if your girl kinda runs 50/50...then you're good. If she's more of the nice girl then you got yourself a clingy one...and if she tips the bitch scale....maybe that's why you're still with her...
So should I post the "How to Fake an Orgasm-- The Animated Guide" ???
Disclaimer.... if your girl does any of this...don't blame me for exposing the truth.
I guess if your girl kinda runs 50/50...then you're good. If she's more of the nice girl then you got yourself a clingy one...and if she tips the bitch scale....maybe that's why you're still with her...
So should I post the "How to Fake an Orgasm-- The Animated Guide" ???
Disclaimer.... if your girl does any of this...don't blame me for exposing the truth.
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