Thanks iron! I hear you homie and believe me when I say that I know what you are talking about. Dealing with chicks has never really been a problem. Been there and done that. I've had my share and always just brushed it off whether I was the one breaking up with the chick or she broke up with me. It's just my last relationship that really fooked me up because I had never opened myself up or given my heart to a female the way I did with this chick. And with a baby in the mix now, it just makes it harder to forget and get over because no matter what, we have to deal with each other. Like I said, I think it's just gonna take time.
I hear you on that one. I thought my ex was the "one". Boy I couldn't have been more wrong. It's been over a year and I still think about her. It's weird cause after everything was said and done I realized that I didn't even know her. I was in love with a person that never really existed.
Thanks iron! I hear you homie and believe me when I say that I know what you are talking about. Dealing with chicks has never really been a problem. Been there and done that. I've had my share and always just brushed it off whether I was the one breaking up with the chick or she broke up with me. It's just my last relationship that really fooked me up because I had never opened myself up or given my heart to a female the way I did with this chick. And with a baby in the mix now, it just makes it harder to forget and get over because no matter what, we have to deal with each other. Like I said, I think it's just gonna take time.
I hear you on that one. I thought my ex was the "one". Boy I couldn't have been more wrong. It's been over a year and I still think about her. It's weird cause after everything was said and done I realized that I didn't even know her. I was in love with a person that never really existed.
Whoa! That's pretty much exactly how I feel jl. For me it has been about 6 months since I have seen her. I realize now that the person that I thought I knew also never really existed.
okay what she did to you was messed up....HOWEVER, take into consideration that she's PREGNANT... I've had MANY Pregnant friends...and I will be the first to tell you they got some FREAKING MOOD SWINGS. Happy one min, crying the next... and they have pride too...they are never wrong... so think about that - your pride is important but it should not exceed your daughter's birth...that's should be #1 priority at whatever cost.
Call her up...dont' wait for her to call you. Take the initiative for once and if she bitches...tell her to shut the hell up because You need her to deliver that baby without complications...after that she can bitch all she wants.
exactly G! See you understand...so maybe she's not so bad..you wanted to know what went wrong... maybe it's just HORMONES. Don't sit around waiting for her to call... be the one to put your foot down and be there for her regardless.
Love is being there for someone thur thick and thin, the good times and the bad...now that it's bad...don't run away. Be there anyways. She may need you but refuse to accept it. Look past your differences and focus on your baby - do it now before it's too late. Do you want to explain to your daughter one day that you had to wait for her mother to call you when she went into labor or do you wanna say that you were there before she was even born and was there every min up til she was delivered? I hope you choose the latter.