To recap from our phone conversation so you don't forget one of the many options I suggested...
Send him an email saying that you have the link to his myspace and offer yours in return...don't forget to forward me his response. Muhaha I love the details...
Plan to go out Friday to lunch with him and his old friend and have a good time and get to know him better.
And if all he does is continue to push you to go faster in the relationshp (and you don't want a fling at this point - hey maybe you do?!) then just let him know that you have thought about it and you have come to the conclusion that he can't offer you what you are looking for.
If he asks what you are looking for then tell him you are looking for the guy who can fall madly in love with you and understand that you are a super star.
From the rest of the story you mentioned on the phone...I am fairly certain he is not the one. Maybe he's a good fuck though... ...no, I didn't say it!
Questions:
1. Where is he from/grow up?
2. Where did you meet him?
3. Are you getting the feeling he's slime (not because you want his weiner, just purely on the facts)?
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Questions:
1. Where is he from/grow up?
2. Where did you meet him?
3. Are you getting the feeling he's slime (not because you want his weiner, just purely on the facts)?
1. Pennslyvian/ Virgina ( EAST coast)
2. online... on my 2nd trip to vegas, my coworkers took it upon themselves to set me up on a date- they looked thur a bunch of online ads and ran across thought he was cute- happens to find my description so they answered - he replied.. and they hijacked my computer, send my pics... When I got back..he send me an email saying HI...and I just kinda talked to him from there and after like 2 weeks, decided I'll go out on a date. (never done this before but I figured I'd give it a try).
3. I think he's a nice guy... the slim part is all based on the myspace. And couple of things he said
it all comes down to ... if he's a nice guy...I'd like to continue dating him- keep as a friend if it doesn't work out
IF he's playing me for a fool to get in my pants...then I wanna burn him
I figured you GUYS can all put your sincere input since you've played the game before and know if he's fronting or not.
Nothing really sets off my play-dar..........but I think he's creeping up on yours. Based on that, I'm sorry to say, but I have a feeling he's playing the field in several different cities.
There's nothing really wrong with that, but don't jump off the bridge and expect him to be there to catch you.
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I'm sorry, but you have to have some real issues to put a pic like that as your main pic on your site . Also, he sounds like a real jerkoff from his profile. I'd say get rid of the self-absorbed player and find yourself a nice guy.
What can I say, guys are dogs and females are byotches. It's just the way it is, at least in my world. Of course this doesn't apply to everyone but IMO anyone you meet of the opposite gender there is a good chance you could have yourself a dog/byotch on your hands. I stopped trusting females long time ago and the more girls I meed the more closed my heart gets. All I gotta say GP is that this guy sounds like a dog, smells like a dog, and looks like a dog. Just have fun and make him buy you some nice dinners.
You only been out on 2 dates, and you're already thinking about a long term relationship with the guy? Why not just date for a while and see how it goes, rather than snooping around trying to uncover something. No offense, but if some chick I was seeing was to go through all of this after the 2nd date, I would think she's crazy.
You should just have fun and let things carry its course. I think after 2 dates is too soon to be thinking about a long term relationship.
I know trust should be earned, so give him a chance to earn it, and if you cant trust him, blow him off.
You only been out on 2 dates, and you're already thinking about a long term relationship with the guy? Why not just date for a while and see how it goes, rather than snooping around trying to uncover something. No offense, but if some chick I was seeing was to go through all of this after the 2nd date, I would think she's crazy.
You should just have fun and let things carry its course. I think after 2 dates is too soon to be thinking about a long term relationship.
I know trust should be earned, so give him a chance to earn it, and if you cant trust him, blow him off.
See this is the difference between men and women. A woman knows from the 1st date if they gonna give the guy some or not. And when a woman likes a guy they start to think about relationshits and bondage... I mean marriage. I don't get it either but from my observation and research this seems to be the case.
You only been out on 2 dates, and you're already thinking about a long term relationship with the guy? Why not just date for a while and see how it goes, rather than snooping around trying to uncover something. No offense, but if some chick I was seeing was to go through all of this after the 2nd date, I would think she's crazy.
You should just have fun and let things carry its course. I think after 2 dates is too soon to be thinking about a long term relationship.
I know trust should be earned, so give him a chance to earn it, and if you cant trust him, blow him off.
See this is the difference between men and women. A woman knows from the 1st date if they gonna give the guy some or not. And when a woman likes a guy they start to think about relationshits and bondage... I mean marriage. I don't get it either but from my observation and research this seems to be the case.
haha funny but true.
the sad thing is - i'm the opposite. i think like a woman i guess... i think about relationship right away... and if i don't think it wil work, i don't waste my time. this is why i never have a gf. i actauly look for reasons not to like a girl.
honestly, i'd say about 10% of females my age are datable to me.
how messed up is my thinking...?? haha
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...no, I didn't say it!
. Also, he sounds like a real jerkoff from his profile. I'd say get rid of the self-absorbed player and find yourself a nice guy.
