Personal? for women friends on 6mt and driver men/their game
I know you are out there awesomewomen and I know that you have a lot of experience on this topic!
About a month ago I found myself saying to a friend that I needed to find a nice rich patron who wants me to move in and write a book. I am sick of all the romantic drama, give me a crumb no full cake connection I’ve been offered and now politely decline forever.
So last night I finally get done working around 9pm, sit down for some on-line friends time and somewhere in my peaceful moment, the phone rings. A guy I met on a plane to Vegas with whom I have had dinner a couple of weeks ago; John, a bit older, extremely well spoken, attractive, car lover. I had to cancel some stuff we had set up for last Friday to take care of my mother and he so he called because he realized that he missed me. I let him know that he is a great guy who deserves to find love and happiness and probably will because I can tell already that he really “has it going on”. And he does, he really could get whatever it is he wants and deserves in this life. Yet, I have decided for my own personal reasons that we are not going to sleep together but should in our better interest pursue a really great friendship. And I won’t lie…I was tempted to give it a go as he is very intelligent and entertaining. Forty minutes later…we actually had a wonderful talk…but I can’t help but feel like certain cards have been “played” in case I might change my mind…
One – he admits to having gotten a 28 year old woman pregnant in the last couple of years though she lost the baby and they couldn’t make the relationship work. So he has thrown out the yes, I am a bit older than you are but if you want babies they are negotiable.
Two – he is impressed by the fact that I am not interested in the slightest in his money and so if I want a Classic…a Lamborghini Miura…it is in fact behind door number 1.
Three – He cooks, he has an impressive job, he also works on cars and knows how to take care of a woman.
Four – He is flexible, giving, and has no problem with freaky people who are different. That would be me…
Five – Whatever I want………………mine.
OK, so not to be jaded or anything but seriously…this man must really want to get into my pants. Who gives this kind of “game” but a man who you haven’t slept with? Nobody! I believe we have all heard it all and don’t I know that men need to get laid so I’m not judging.
But women of the car chat world…don’t be shy…I would just love right about now to hear something funny or outrageous that was totally “get you into bed” talk…
Guys…no denying in this thread, please. But if you have a naughty game even accidentally you just had to go there…that I’d totally be willing to hear as well. Tinman, Steve...I am expecting "shock and awe".
I am linking to driver with this one and then linking back.
I am a bit older,cook,love cars and work on cars,know how to treat a woman,have wide clearance for freaky people.i'm a bit older but can give you a kid.i don't play games.wanna be my 4th wife?
hehe...kidding aside.
this John guy sounds shaddy to me.you met him not too long ago right? and all you see is the good side of him.i mean all the plus.if you just want someone for bed buddy or a short term relationship then he'll be a perfect guy.
if you want to spend times with someone as long as you could,then you have to find out more about this person.meaning find out the plus and minus,get to know the otherside of him and see if you can live with that.it's a freakin commitment we are talking about here.
to avoid being "played" by peoples,you have to stop "playing" yourself.i'm not saying that you are.
i know you're a very smart girl and you know all this.i don't know why i'm telling you this,i guess it's just need to say something when my name being called out.
btw,some how i got a feeling you have a black book and my name is on there
I say...don't think about it and do what feels right. At least get to know him before you jump to any conclusions about him. He could be Mr. Right/Wrong but how do you know for sure? Only one way...
More or less I was curious about some of the "game" out there.
I am not interested in starting it up with this guy, I don't have the time and I think he has enough great stuff going on that he should find what he is looking for rather than waste his time on me. A hang out once a month kind of friendship would be fine though if we can arrange it.
The "game" thoughts just came to me though and I starting thinking about adding something to a character in the book I am writing...but then I thought I'd throw it out here and on driver to hear something other than my own perspective. I already have a few funny ideas for my character though.
Hmmm some of the 'game' that I've heard about or seen. My friend's friend back in MD has no social skill what-so-ever. He's more like a monkey in the wild. Anyways, he used to drive a IS300 until his drunk friend totaled it. Well, one time I remember when he was talking to a girl he actually said, 'Have you ever rode in a IS before?' Now this is taken out of context and I don't know if he was really using it to hook the girl but the way I took it was he was using it to hit on the girl. What an idiot. I mean it's only an IS300. Geez. Anyways, this fooker also put an extacy pill up his ass because someone told him it would fuck him up. I'm glad I wasn't there to see that. Gross.
Another funny thing I saw was at a club downn here. I was with some Air Force guys and this one guy did this thing and it worked. This guy isn't a model pretty boy type. I mean he looks pretty plain. Nother unique about him but somehow he pulls a lot of girls. And this one night we were on the dance floor and he sees a girl and the girl looks at him, then he gets is Uncle Sam, 'I want you' stare and points at the girl. The girl stares at him and then he gets his pointing finger and rotates it and then signals her to get over here finger sign. I was cracking up inside, I was like 'OMG what is this douche doing?!' However, to my disbelief she smiles and goes over to him. WHOA! That was amazing like that M&M candy bar. By the end of the night he basically had her panties around her ankle.
First of all, you friend stuck what up his ass?????
Second, that is called confidence, that is how I always got laid. If I was straight forward and to the point, I usually got more respect and got what I wanted...
First of all, you friend stuck what up his ass?????
Second, that is called confidence, that is how I always got laid. If I was straight forward and to the point, I usually got more respect and got what I wanted...
First of all he's my friend's friend, not my direct friend. And yes he stuck it up his anus. Well, the story goes like this. One of my friend told him that the x would fuck him up more up his bunghole and he did it. And when it didn't work he took it out and washed it and then ate it. EWWWWWWWWWW! Well, I don't know how much of it is true because I heard it second hand but it's still funny. I made a song about it too. LOL.
Well, the story goes like this. One of my friend told him that the x would fuck him up more up his bunghole and he did it. And when it didn't work he took it out and washed it and then ate it. EWWWWWWWWWW! Well, I don't know how much of it is true because I heard it second hand but it's still funny. I made a song about it too. LOL.
Call me up and sing that song, man. Yea, the game you have described from your friends in the above stories...it is more like negative game. But negative game is even better than game!
well, since the floor has been opened to talking about other people's game too, I also have a story about a complete stranger. It happened a few years ago at a bar that I was leaving with a buddy of mine around 1am. As we walk through the side exit and turn toward the parking area, we hear this SWEEEETT screamin' engine sound, "REV.....RRRRREEEEEVVVVVV.....REV...REV.....REEEEE EEVVVVVVV" When we get to the parking lot, we see this fat, balding guy standing next to his Lamborghini, with one hot babe on his arm, and another in the car (both looked like strippers) with the lambo door up, and she's popping the gas, over and over again....I think she may have come right there in the car.
Turns out it was some engineering geek who worked for a company called Broadcom which, at that time, had spawned about 10 internet billionaires through its public offering. I have to admit, I was jealous.
Well, the story goes like this. One of my friend told him that the x would fuck him up more up his bunghole and he did it. And when it didn't work he took it out and washed it and then ate it. EWWWWWWWWWW! Well, I don't know how much of it is true because I heard it second hand but it's still funny. I made a song about it too. LOL.
Call me up and sing that song, man. Yea, the game you have described from your friends in the above stories...it is more like negative game. But negative game is even better than game!
Yea the first story is a negaative but the second one is a positive, IMO. I mean who would thought that point and drag would work outside of Windows XP. I would never think of doing that and for it to work.
And this one night we were on the dance floor and he sees a girl and the girl looks at him, then he gets is Uncle Sam, 'I want you' stare and points at the girl. The girl stares at him and then he gets his pointing finger and rotates it and then signals her to get over here finger sign. I was cracking up inside, I was like 'OMG what is this douche doing?!' However, to my disbelief she smiles and goes over to him. WHOA! That was amazing like that M&M candy bar. By the end of the night he basically had her panties around her ankle.
When I used to play I figured this out. I gotta about 2 minutes to make the girl laugh or to notice something different about her and call it out. If I can do that, I've got her. Laughter always worked for me though, even if I was making fun of myself. After that, I didn't need a fancy car, a deep wallet, or anything superficial, I was just me. I was always and will always be a gentleman, but I will never be a wuss.
The way I look at it, if I have to have "game" to get a chicks attention, then she is not worth it. I am just myself and if that isn't good enough then, oh well.
Personal? for women friends on 6mt and driver men/their game
you? settle down? now that's a shocking news 
Geez. Anyways, this fooker also put an extacy pill up his ass because someone told him it would fuck him up. I'm glad I wasn't there to see that. Gross. 
