Nicely put LC... single life ain't too bad... it sucks every now and then, but at least you have your freedom. That's what I love most... the fact that it's now ALL ABOUT ME. I'll admit I get lonely and sometimes I wonder what my life would be like if I had settle down... but then I get over it. I don't really think love is meant for me. I keep choosing all the wrong guys. All the ones that want me are a bunch of pansy asses... and the ones I want think I'm a "nice" girl...screw that, I dont' wanna be the nice girl... they always finish last.
But then again, I think I'm just too scared to fall in love again. I never give my heart completely to anyone anymore. I hold back... Guess my dream guy really don't exist...
Sorry actually that is nice GUYS finish last. I know, I've been there so many times I can't stand it. If I hear one more girl tell me that I'm really a nice guy one more time I'm going to snap. Sometimes I think that my approach should be to be a dick. Unfortunately it is not my personality.
Single is not so bad. I keep a busy schedule now and sometimes find I have little time to even do the things I want. I'm always looking for ways to keep myself busy. The best part of being single would be the fact if you just don't want to do something that you just don't have to. You can come and go as you please. You can take off and do things you want with out the guilt of the other person.
The draw backs, well, you have to do a lot of stuff on your own. If your like me with the small circle of friends you find you do a lot of things on your own. Eating out alone is one of the things I don't really like. I find that many times it is like I'm in and out of there in fifteen minutes. Just something funny. Going to the movies by yourself is also odd. I always think that people must be looking at me thinking I'm some sort of PeeWee Herman. (I guess I should stay out of those types of movies - just joking)
But really you adapt.
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Nicely put LC... single life ain't too bad... it sucks every now and then, but at least you have your freedom. That's what I love most... the fact that it's now ALL ABOUT ME. I'll admit I get lonely and sometimes I wonder what my life would be like if I had settle down... but then I get over it. I don't really think love is meant for me. I keep choosing all the wrong guys. All the ones that want me are a bunch of pansy asses... and the ones I want think I'm a "nice" girl...screw that, I dont' wanna be the nice girl... they always finish last.
But then again, I think I'm just too scared to fall in love again. I never give my heart completely to anyone anymore. I hold back... Guess my dream guy really don't exist...
Sorry actually that is nice GUYS finish last. I know, I've been there so many times I can't stand it. If I hear one more girl tell me that I'm really a nice guy one more time I'm going to snap. Sometimes I think that my approach should be to be a dick. Unfortunately it is not my personality.
Single is not so bad. I keep a busy schedule now and sometimes find I have little time to even do the things I want. I'm always looking for ways to keep myself busy. The best part of being single would be the fact if you just don't want to do something that you just don't have to. You can come and go as you please. You can take off and do things you want with out the guilt of the other person.
The draw backs, well, you have to do a lot of stuff on your own. If your like me with the small circle of friends you find you do a lot of things on your own. Eating out alone is one of the things I don't really like. I find that many times it is like I'm in and out of there in fifteen minutes. Just something funny. Going to the movies by yourself is also odd. I always think that people must be looking at me thinking I'm some sort of PeeWee Herman. (I guess I should stay out of those types of movies - just joking)
But really you adapt.
Princess, perhaps you are waiting for your dream girl.
I agree with AZ, it's definitely nice guys finish last (not women).
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Eating out alone is one of the things I don't really like. I find that many times it is like I'm in and out of there in fifteen minutes. Just something funny. Going to the movies by yourself is also odd.
I agree. It's fun to do whatever you want whenever you want but eating out or going to the movies by yourself is somehow different.
As usual...I am the weird one. I enjoy eating, movies alone. I spent 2003-04 New Years reading Crime and Punishment in a nice restaurant with a great salad and hitting the rest of a movie I had been kicked from when there was a bomb scare earlier in the month. The movie sucked ass though...........LOTR3...
I don't worry about "nice girls finish last"...I am a nice girl and that's my f'n life and personality...why be anything other than lovechild1970 if that happens to be your name?
I agree. It's fun to do whatever you want whenever you want but eating out or going to the movies by yourself is somehow different.
I've never understood that about movies. It is so weird to go to a movie by yourself, yet all you do is sit there quietly in the dark. It shouldn't matter at all if you're alone, but somehow it does...
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I think we can probably all admit that there's a good and bad side to both dating and being single. My girlfriend and I broke up a month or so ago and I've had a great time being by myself since then. I'm in the gym everyday, get to do whatever I want at night, I get to pick out what DVD to watch, I don't have to worry about calling someone every night, etc. I too think its a bid weird going to movies by myself but do it anyway. I'll even go to a couple local bars by myself (although getting to know the bartenders makes it seem like you're there with someone!) In spite of all this, I did see my ex a week ago and admit that I had some feelings of missing her compansionship, laughing together (clearly miss the sex as well!), etc.
The bottom line for me is that I'm more happy being independent at this time in my life but at some later point in life that may change.
I'm in the gym everyday, get to do whatever I want at night, I get to pick out what DVD to watch, I don't have to worry about calling someone every night, etc.
Maybe this is the problem with some people's relationships, but...why can't you do all that stuff when you have a girlfriend?
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Struan, because in my case I had the wrong girlfriend. If I find a woman with whom I can do those things, I'd be a happy camper! I know she's out there....just need to keep looking and be picky enough to not settle for less than what I want out of a relationship.
Struan, because in my case I had the wrong girlfriend. If I find a woman with whom I can do those things, I'd be a happy camper! I know she's out there....just need to keep looking and be picky enough to not settle for less than what I want out of a relationship.
Yeah, I guess that was my point. Everyone's talking about how they're better off single, but I think it's more like what you're saying--find the person with whom you can do the things you'd do anyway.
Kinda like in Office Space: think of what you'd do if you didn't have to work, and make that your job.
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So I am lovin' the single life again. I meet new people every day. I don't date them mostly because I know that it takes a really special person to interest me. There was a term "quirky alone" that sort of descibed those of us who would prefer alone to an imperfect match. I know it is a one in a million chance...I have other gifts to pursue right now.
ahhhemm...like I was sayin'....if it is about love...listen to love...
So I am lovin' the single life again. I meet new people every day. I don't date them mostly because I know that it takes a really special person to interest me. There was a term "quirky alone" that sort of descibed those of us who would prefer alone to an imperfect match. I know it is a one in a million chance...I have other gifts to pursue right now.
ahhhemm...like I was sayin'....if it is about love...listen to love...
I had a client who married a man and they later found out they were half brother and sister (same father different mother). Even after suspecting and confirming through a dna test they decided to stay together
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