Lonely Hearts Dating Guide

[AZ-G35]

Originally Posted by Lardoggy

I guess it's Karma or something like that but, just tonight, this very day, the above-referenced girl friend and I broke up! Jesus H....I know we're both better off for it, but sux none-the-less

My take on women based on my interactions with them is that most of their issues stem from insecurity. Women are incredibly competitve with each other and this drives alot of that insecurity. give me a confident woman who doesnt freak out everytime another good looking woman walks by and I'd be a happy camper.

Sorry Lardoggy. She must have read your post...

Ok so your in the club. Man spaces are being taken up quickly here.

You did hit it on the head. Most women are insecure, mostly about themselves, low self esteem which complicates the matter.

[AZ-G35]

Originally Posted by uhohNumber2brb

I have a hypothesis:

Be friendly with the beat chick, they always have hotass friends...(hot chicks love being friends with beat chicks so that they feel better about themselves and get all the attention)

Be nice to them and what not, go to places where you won't be seen together, say a movie(anywhere dark is good, not romantic though). But always remind her that you guys are such good friends, that way she won't get any ideas, and if she does, "I don't want to ruin our friendship"

Soon enough, the beat chick is bound to bring some of her hot friends out.
Nows your chance to make your move on the hot ones, and odds are, the beat chick has been tellin the hot one all da good things bout you, making it even easier for you to score with the hot one.

If this works for you, I will accept an impul spoiler as gratitude. Good Luck!!!

Ok, I'm guilt and have done this, simply gone out with one in hopes of being saved by a better looking friend. Uhhhh, didn't work for me. The friends always had boyfriends so I couldn't get in on that angle.

Ok I did do this once but it takes time to work it. So I was going out with this girl, very nice. She happened to work, well lets just say at this place where there were a lot of other nice looking women, (and no she wasn't a stripper - well not this one, that's another story). So everything is going good. I'm really a romantic at heart so I bring over flowers to her at her place of business, usually like every two to three weeks. Everytime that I did, these women which mind you were good looking but never seemed to have boyfriends, were like always gushy over this and thought it was so sweet followed by the "I wish I had a boyfriend like that" (Little did I know all women say this UNTIL the day they get one) So I'm now waiting to see if the seeds I planted will blossom. I know women talk so it should be a little while and the word will get around about the split. With any luck I may find someone else. If all else fails I'll have to ask the ex to set me up with her co-workers....hahaha!

[AZ-G35]

Ok I was thinking about this yesterday. Not necessarly for Lonely Hearts but it is a great idea to just get out and meet other people.

Why don't we get together a car rally. This could be huge. I guess we could do a west coast thing, or we can go bigger but say meet in the middle of the country somewhere if we include east coasters. What would it take to organize something like this? If it is west coast maybe the vegas area, maybe the middle of Cali?

What do you all think?

[Lardoggy]

Whoa, AZ you've been busy my friend! Must be a slow day at the office

My situation was bound to happen, just a matter of time, and that's probably what drew me to this thread in the first place.

I'd done the Internet dating thing in the past...met some interesting people, never had what I'd call a bad experience, but pretty much everything that's already been said here on this subject is true. But, Ih ave no regrets.

One thing that always bothered me about relationships is that, it seems like I'm more likely to meet new woman when I already have one! As soon as I don't have a girlfriend, the well goes dry....like they've got some kind of underground communication network going on.

So where to go to meet women? As soon as I figure that one out, I may become a rich guy. However, being in such places doesn't guarantee anything. Like you AZ, I tend to be a bit shy at first and dont necessarily have the "gift of gab". Personally, I'm gonna give the yoga thing a try. Kind of getting tired of the same gym routine and most of the women I know who do that kind of stuff tend to have a good sense of balance in their lives.

[uhohNumber2brb]

AZ:

To get a better showing for the get together, hire the pretend models (import chicks) to show up, we can say we're doing a photoshoot for Stillen or Nismo calenders. We'll give them a percentage of each calender we sell.

We get to be perverted without looking perverted snapping away with our digicam, and a few of use could get lucky later on in the nite.

edit: Johnny Walker/Nismo calender, have plenty of liqour at the get together, and alot more of us could get lucky.

Originally Posted by Lardoggy

One thing that always bothered me about relationships is that, it seems like I'm more likely to meet new woman when I already have one! As soon as I don't have a girlfriend, the well goes dry....like they've got some kind of underground communication network going on.

I second that...

[AZ-G35]

[quote="uhohNumber2brb"]AZ:

To get a better showing for the get together, hire the pretend models (import chicks) to show up, we can say we're doing a photoshoot for Stillen or Nismo calenders. We'll give them a percentage of each calender we sell.

We get to be perverted without looking perverted snapping away with our digicam, and a few of use could get lucky later on in the nite.

edit: Johnny Walker/Nismo calender, have plenty of liqour at the get together, and alot more of us could get lucky.


Excellent idea.

Ok I just was talking to this chick and she in Promotions and needs to get a break. She is already doing some things but maybe I'll contact her and see what it would be to organize this.

Yeah, we can do this up big time. I wonder what the cost is for the Import Models? Any do it for free for the free exposure? Where do I find this information out?

[uhohNumber2brb]

First off, we can pay them with thong bikinis and hooker heels...and we'll exposed them on 6mt.net

Second, I'm not sure, but I think some get paid like $50 for modeling for peep's car at the shows and some do it for free cause it's their crew's car.

I'm all da way in philly, so I can't really help you, but I do believe I have enought miles for a free ticket, so get the chicks and I'll see you there.

[BreaKaoss]

Originally Posted by Lardoggy

One thing that always bothered me about relationships is that, it seems like I'm more likely to meet new woman when I already have one! As soon as I don't have a girlfriend, the well goes dry....like they've got some kind of underground communication network going on.

haha. my theory behind this is that if you have a girlfriend then other girls think you've got something to be had. if you have a sister or a cousin who's a girl go out with her and see if other girls don't hit on you. of course, don't tell the girls that she's your sister or cousin.

something else that'll help i think. charm would help a lot here, but nonetheless it can be done. get to be friends with as many girls as you can and give them your cell phone number only. reason being when they all start calling your cell phone other girls will notice, and once again girls will think you've got something they want. (you might want nextel free incoming for this, lol)

[AZ-G35]

Funny about the cell phone. I knew this guy, he had like three cell phones. 1 for work, 1 that was his private line, and 1 that he gave out to girls. Occasionally he would bounce between the private one and the girl one. He typically only carried two with him. If too many girls would call the one he would just shut it off or suspend the service for a while and then they would quit calling.

[jl9618]

If too many girls would call the one he would just shut it off or suspend the service for a while and then they would quit calling.

I wish I had that problem

[Lardoggy]

3 cell phones sounds like way too much work! I have trouble remembering to bring just the one with me every morning! Plus, I've never really been able to juggle multiple women at one time....I guess I have trouble hiding that kind of stuff

Just got back from lunch, went outside to enjoy another fine So Cal afternoon (75 ish and sunny) and, as I watched all the beautiful women walk on by (even got a couple of smiles!), I thought, hey, this single thing aint all that bad. Who knows how long that feeling will last

[AZ-G35]

Yes there is really nothing wrong with single. I'm actually getting used to it. I was feeling bad initially but I think it will work out.

I'm trying to socialize myself. Going to lunch and dinner to different places. Giving a couple more extra glances at woman. Trying to strike up conversations with people, make some light humor. Went to the dog park last night.

Next I'm going to start buying some nicer clothes......clothes make the man. Got a nice ride so have to look the part and change the image.

[Ru_G36c]

found a license plate for you guys

[lovechild1970]

Nice plate.

I think I could join this club nine times over...I have dated the stuff you can't even put in a Seinfeld Episode. It would fill a book and I scare the living shit out of most people here....so...

stopped dating a few years back and was just starting to get the hang of spending the rest of my life with my one and only "slut puppy" of a G35 and meeting lots of cool friends...then I decided to date a "friend of a friend" who I knew for years. I thought damn, this man is in the upper eschelons of greatness and we have a few things in common so I will have to think about it. I thought for a month and he and I started dating. He was so into me that he had us planned out on the calandar well through August, meeting parents, going to Key West in February. He really inspired me, didn't crowd me, lived out of town and was totally "there for me" in every way. His ex called a bunch but I guess I am pretty secure in who I am and if it doesn't work out move on. Flowers, bear, poem, dinner, homeade cookie, "wicked" sex for Valentine's day, massage class for couples. Feb 16th he called and was like "we are done". I cried and then went to Key West alone and had a blast and came back and was like it is OK we can be friends from afar hope you are having a happy birthday, thanks for calling, see you Saturday to get my wheels back. So I went out of my way to meet at my friends, get wheels in person like an adult, say hi and figured it would be good closure to look into his eyes and miss Key West instead of feeling like I did in Key West missing him. So I was early. He was hours earlier. He called my phone and the tone in his voice was that he couldn't escape fast enough which was kind of freaky. I decided it might not be a good idea to put myself in a position to get dealt any more blows though I have only had about three guys I dated with whom I couldn't remain friends.

So I am lovin' the single life again. I meet new people every day. I don't date them mostly because I know that it takes a really special person to interest me. There was a term "quirky alone" that sort of descibed those of us who would prefer alone to an imperfect match. I know it is a one in a million chance...I have other gifts to pursue right now. A good back rub from a friend or someone falling asleep in their clothes beside you every few months is a blessing as I recall.

Best place to find people...do your own thing...people who do that thing might congregate in the activity or the clubs of the activity. If I thought cars were my primary thing in life...I might look for someone on 6MT in Ohio. As it is I just love meeting new friends...less enmeshment, more fun, more love, more joy for me.

[G35Princess]

Nicely put LC... single life ain't too bad... it sucks every now and then, but at least you have your freedom. That's what I love most... the fact that it's now ALL ABOUT ME. I'll admit I get lonely and sometimes I wonder what my life would be like if I had settle down... but then I get over it. I don't really think love is meant for me. I keep choosing all the wrong guys. All the ones that want me are a bunch of pansy asses... and the ones I want think I'm a "nice" girl...screw that, I dont' wanna be the nice girl... they always finish last.

But then again, I think I'm just too scared to fall in love again. I never give my heart completely to anyone anymore. I hold back... Guess my dream guy really don't exist...